when i go to the play location on this forum / website and click on play / connect to netherlands or germany or any other server it doesnt do anything ??

I think you were one of the guys I sent the last alpha to, right? Uninstall it and reinstall with the newest version, easiest way to go I guess. There was a bug in one of the launcher versions that would mess up the location of RIK.exe so the web browsers couldn't start it any more.